Wednesday, July 9, 2008

I'm back ...

Hi everyone,

Sorry for the long absence.

Was having some problem with my "all these while so good and faithful" maid. She betrayed our trust, went back and never returned as promised. It was such a gradual well plan drama..I felt so silly , stupid and a loser to be conned by her. Her story was damn good and managed to stole our sympathy.
The worst was my 4 kids having to settle down to a new routine of going to nursery and childcare centre fullday.

The experience with this great cheater was too traumatising for me emotionally not to mention some financial loss and fear from unpleasant sms related to that maid.

Now I have to be on unpay leave to see to the welfare of my kids and household. All these while we have been so dependant on the maid since we both work outstation. Blessing in disguise that she didnt take my youngest daughter along..the one she supposedly love very much. That's why all these while no loop holes or unpleasant discoveries. All work was done well and she was soooooo capable .

Let bygones be bygones. Just pray that there wont be any more future problem crawling in after how she cheated us and also we believed she did all that with a syndicate.

I really feel like putting her photo and details online to boycot her. My maid agency said there's nothing they can do or I can do. Even after reporting to Immigration and the Police this "cheater" can still come in to Malaysia anytime as long as she changes her name and identity and make a new pasport. I really hope she wont go on to find the next victim.

What do you think I should do? Sometimes it's so unfair. We employers can cheated and became victim to these kind of maid and yet we get penalty of RM250 by Immigration. On top of that taking a new one is so damn expensive almost RM8K. The immigration rules are also not strict enough to control the illegal immigrants.

Will find time to blog again.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

sorry..blog on hold

i will b away for sometime. Internet down and got some things to settle.
Please bear with me , ok.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

My Bali Trip

Our Bali trip was really short but sweet. Did quiet a bit of shopping, tasted Bali variety of food and delicacies, had Balinese Massage and also took studio photo in Balinese wedding cultural costume.





Will be back next time but for hubby to golf..not so much shopping then.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Juliana's birthday party at home

Ju was so excited with her party. One week ago she already sent out her own made birthday invitation card to her friends. Then she made a request for a BARBIE doll cake. So her soft hearted mummy took her to her childhood bakery and ordered a 2kg Barbie doll cake with special specification ..pink and red colour roses on Barbie's gown.

This is the photo showing Ju's Barbie doll decoration in progress by the Bakery Ko Ko.



Ju insisted that she wants Barbie holding a bunch of colourful balloons.


We invited about 20 adults and 30 children to Juliana's 4th Birthday tea party at 4pm.
Door gifts: Those lovely Flower lollies (idea courtesy of Lian)

The menu included:
The famous Sharon's laksa, spaghetti, fishball, butter tarts,
fried meehoon, curry chicken, yam cae(wu tau kou), Hong Tau sa(red bean soup), Tutti fruti and "jambu soda/ red guava punch".

Games:
1) Break the Pinata
Believe it or not? None of thekids could break it even with daddy's golf club. That's because the twins koko put too many layers of newspaper. So mummy had to play cheat and cut the pinata a bit to make it break easier.
After the Pinata was broken, the kids were thrilled and showered with golden coins(chocolates),andies, marshmellows and confetti.



2)Superman/Batman/spiderman

3) Do Re Mi Chair.

4) Personalised Your Flower Lolly


Ju were showered with so many gifts from generous uncles and aunties and their kids. Can u imagine..she received 5 sets of Barbie doll sets including one with Barbie and her big car and big house. Thanks to all the lovely invitees for their presence and presents in making this party a joyful and meaningful one for our Princess Juliana.

Happy Birthday and God Bless U to be a fine jewel of our hearts, girl!


(At last the party is over.....i'm so exhausted entertaining my guests. Ju slept from 6 pm to 9 pm that evening)

Busy as a bee...

Came back last Thurs. But was so occupied with work, busy schedule and Juliana's preparation for Bday on 8 June (celebrated one day early instead of her actual birthdate on 10 June.

Will post Bali photos soon and Juliana's birthday photos as soon as possible.

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